Ok guys! Below is an outline of some helpful links, guides, videos, maps, etc. that we've collected so far! If you have ANY info you see missing/you'd like to add, please just post the link in response to this post as we'll be updating this list frequently. Keep in mind that some of these links are months old, so the info provided may be a bit outdated (especially once 2.0 comes around), but most should be helpful enough!

Databases

• FFXIV Lodestone
• XIVpads - One of my favorites for tracking achievements, overall game progress, quests, etc. Also has a lot of good guides, many of which are on this list.
• FFXIVpro - Good item and player searches
• FFXIV zam - Updates & FFXIV wiki
• Gamer Corner Guides - Guides focused primarily on crafted gear
• FFXIV Maps - Detailed maps of all (or the majority of) locations
• Gamer Escape - More guides, especially good for Grand Company quest walkthroughs
• Mozk-Tabetai - A full list of all items, materias, armors/weapons & tools, recipes, gathering & npc sales.

Basic Gameplay

Setting Up Macros

• [Reference] Gear & Accessories Macros
• [Reference] Battle Macros (somewhat outdated)
• [Reference] Job Macro Examples
  
  Weapons
• [Reference] Complete Weapons List/Comparison for Each Job - just click on the "Weapons" sub-category for a complete list of weapons and their stats for each job… i.e. "Conjurer Weapons", "Archer Weapons", etc.
  
  Stats
• [Reference] Stats & You!
• [Reference] Stats for DoH/DoL
  
  Enmity
• [Reference] How Enmity Works
• [Reference] Types of Mob Aggros

Jobs & AF Gear/Weapons

• [Reference] WHM Play Guide - really amazing explanation of how to play WHM, a break down of how each ability works, & optimal gear - it’s worth a read if you wanna WHM!
• [Reference] A Discussion on Optimal BLM Gear
• [Guide]/[Maps] Detailed Jobs Guide & how to get AF Gear for each
  
  AF/Relic Weapons
• [Guide]/[Video] AF Weapon Guide - also has CC/AV videos
• [Guide] Relic Weapons & Progression
• [Video] Ifrit Extreme Battle
• [Reference]/[Guide] Relic Checklist & Ifrit Extreme Guide

Grand Companies/Quests/Seals

• [Chart] Grand Company Ranks
  
  To Kill A Raven/Nael deus Darnus
• [Guide]/[Chart] Normal Mode Guide & Positioning Chart
• [Video] ARR's very own Normal Mode Battle! BRD POV
• [Guide] Hard Mode Battle Guide
• [Video] Hard Mode Dragoon POV Video
• [Video] Hard Mode Phase 2 Battle BLM POV
  
  Getting Seals
• [Chart] Ways of Getting Seals & How Many
• [Guide]/[Maps] Caravan Runs
• [Chart] NM Drops & Seal Exchange
• [Reference]/[Chart] Notorious Monster Guide
• [Chart] GC Supply & Provision Missions

*Make sure to check out Gamer Escape for loads of GC quest walkthroughs.*

Hamlet Defense

• [Guide]/[Reference] Hamlet Defense Battle Explanation
• [Guide]/[Reference] Hamlet Defense Info
• [Maps]/[Video]/[Chart] Hamlet Defense How-To
• [Reference] "Stuff from Hamlets" Drop List
• [Video] 65k Point Hamlet Run (Hyrstmill)

Disciples of Hand/Disciples of Land

Gathering

• [Guide]/[Chart] Gathering Item Info
• [Reference] New Items Gathered (as of 1.22)
• [Guide] An Advanced Miners Guide
• [Guide]/[Video] Fishing Guide

Crafting

• [Guide] How to HQ

Materia

• [Guide] Lodestone Guide to Materia
• [Chart] Materia Creation - what materia can be made from which items
• [Chart] Catalyst & Gear Requirements for Each Materia
• [Chart] All-In-One Materia Chart

Primal Battles

Garuda

• [Guide]/[Chart] Garuda Strat from a JP Blog - veeery long and detailed O.o
• [Reference]/[Guide] Garuda Wiki
• [Video] Basic Garuda Positioning
• [Video] Garuda Hard Mode - Monk POV
• [Video] Garuda Hard Mode - Warrior POV

Ifrit

• [Guide]/[Video]/[Chart] How To: Ifrit Guide
• [Video] Ifrit Positioning
• [Video] Ifrit Speed Run

Good King Moggle Mog

• [Guide]/[Reference] Quest Walkthrough
• [Guide]/[Video] King Moogle Strategy Guide
• [Guide] Speed Run Guide
• [Guide]/[Video] Battle Strategy - this one is cute!! it has little GIFs of each Moogle so you can learn which is which! Important if you're fighting with a specific order :)
• [Video] ARR's very own Moogle battle! WHM POV

Instanced Raids

Aurum Vale

• [Maps] AV Maps
• [Guide]/[Maps] AV Walkthrough
• [Video] AV in 16 Min.
• [Video] AV in 21 Min. - Bard POV
• [Video] Coincounter Battle
• [Video] Miser’s Mistress Battle

Cutter’s Cry

• [Maps] CC Maps
• [Guide]/[Maps] Dungeon Guide
• [Video] CC in 15 Min. - Black Mage POV
• [Video] Myrmidon Princes Battle - Dragoon POV
• [Video] Chimera Battle - Thaumaturge POV
• [Video] 15 Min. Run BLM POV

Dzemael Darkhold

• [Maps] DD Maps
• [Video] DD Video Guide
• [Guide]/[Maps] Batraal Battle Strat

Thousand Maws of Toto-Rak

• [Maps] Toto-Rak Map
• [Guide]/[Maps] Guide to Toto-Rak w/ Maps

Misc. Gameplay Guides

Imperial Assaults

• [Video] Imperial Assault at Iron Lake
• [Reference] Imperial Assault Information

Strongholds/Beastmen

• [Reference]/[Maps] Stronghold Chest Locations & Maps
• [Reference] Another Drop List/Locations

Achievements

• [Reference]/[Guide]/[Maps] Exploration Achievement

Factions/Leves

• [Guide] Colosseum Gears/Faction Info
• [Reference]/[Guide] Faction Leve NMs and List of Drops

Nice! ☆*:.｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆

I have one to add, if I may.
Recipe, equipment and gathering location and item list:

http://ffxiv.mozk-tabetai.com/

Thanks Cass! Added :)

I know we're a long way from doing this, but here is a video that explains how to dodge Ifrit dashes in the Ifrit Extreme battle. For those of you who don't know, this battle comes near the end of your relic weapon quest. Ifrit Extreme is quite a bit harder than the Ifrit you fight for primal weapon drops.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hmlr59X20ac&feature=player_detailpage

Thanks Rane, adding it on now :)

http://cinquleur.guildwork.com/forum/threads/4ffb62dc205cb26b29001474-stuffs-from-hamlets?page=1#4ffb62db205cb26b29001473

cool list for those like me who have no idea of what drops where

Yes, please.

I could add it myself, but Livi's list is so pretty I don't want to mess it up.

Lol, I'll add it at some point today, Vem, whenever I have Internet access *sniffle* ;(

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Added! :D